Recognizing and Responding to Bullying

A Parent Resource Guide for Texas Schools

What is Bullying?

Bullying is repeated, intentional, aggressive behavior that involves an imbalance of power. It can take many forms:  

• Physical: Hitting, pushing, or damaging property.  

• Verbal: Name-calling, insults, or threats.  

• Social: Excluding, spreading rumors, or public humiliation.  

• Cyberbullying: Harassment or threats online, through texts or social media.

How Can I Tell If My Child Is Being Bullied?

Look for these signs:  

• Unexplained injuries or lost belongings  

• Avoidance of school or social situations  

• Sudden drop in academic performance  

• Changes in mood, appetite, or sleep  

• Complaints of stomachaches or headaches to avoid school  

• Emotional withdrawal or increased anxiety

How Can Parents Respond?

If Your Child Is Being Bullied:

1. Listen and Validate – Encourage open conversations; let your child know it's not their fault.  

2. Document Incidents – Keep records of bullying behavior, including dates, locations, and witnesses.  

3. Report to School – Contact teachers or administrators and follow the school’s reporting process.  

4. Additional Support – If you believe your child requires extra support, please contact the school counselors on campus. 

5. Empower Your Child – Help them practice assertive responses and identify trusted adults for support.  

6. Monitor Social Media– If cyberbullying is involved, save messages and block perpetrators.  

If Your Child Is Bullying Others:

• Acknowledge the Behavior – Have honest conversations to understand their actions.  

• Teach Empathy – Help them recognize the impact of their behavior on others.  

• Work with the School – Collaborate on strategies for accountability and behavioral improvement.  

What Resources Are Available?

• StopBullying.gov https://www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/middle-school](https://www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/middle-school –National resources for parents and educators  

• Administration – Your first point of contact for reporting bullying

Encouraging a Bully-Free School Culture

• Promote kindness and inclusion at home  

• Encourage children to stand up for their peers respectfully  

• Get involved in school anti-bullying initiatives  

Small-town schools thrive on strong community bonds—by working together, we can create a safe and supportive environment for all students.