Recognizing and Responding to Bullying

A Parent Resource Guide for Texas Schools

What is Bullying?

Bullying is repeated, intentional, aggressive behavior that involves an imbalance of power. It can take many forms: 

  • Physical: Hitting, pushing, or damaging property.  

  • Verbal: Name-calling, insults, or threats.  

  • Social: Excluding, spreading rumors, or public humiliation.  

  • Cyberbullying: Harassment or threats online, through texts or social media.

How Can I Tell If My Child Is Being Bullied?

Look for these signs:  

  • Unexplained injuries or lost belongings  

  • Avoidance of school or social situations  

  • Sudden drop in academic performance  

  • Changes in mood, appetite, or sleep  

  • Complaints of stomachaches or headaches to avoid school  

  • Emotional withdrawal or increased anxiety

How Can Parents Respond?

If Your Child Is Being Bullied:

  1. Listen and Validate – Encourage open conversations; let your child know it's not their fault.  

  2. Document Incidents – Keep records of bullying behavior, including dates, locations, and witnesses.  

  3. Report to School – Contact teachers or administrators and follow the school’s reporting process.  

  4. Additional Support – If you believe your child requires extra support, please contact the school counselors on campus. 

  5. Empower Your Child – Help them practice assertive responses and identify trusted adults for support.  

  6. Monitor Social Media– If cyberbullying is involved, save messages and block perpetrators.  

What If Your Child Is Bullying Others?

If your child is bullying others:

  • Acknowledge the Behavior – Have honest conversations to understand their actions.  

  • Teach Empathy – Help them recognize the impact of their behavior on others.  

  • Work with the School – Collaborate on strategies for accountability and behavioral improvement.  

What Resources Are Available?

Some available resources are:

How to Encouraging a Bully-Free School Culture

To encourage a bully-free school culture:

  • Promote kindness and inclusion at home  

  • Encourage children to stand up for their peers respectfully  

  • Get involved in school anti-bullying initiatives  

Small-town schools thrive on strong community bonds—by working together, we can create a safe and supportive environment for all students.